This one is going to be very difficult for most of you. You have come to depend on it so much that you may not know how to do without it.
If you understand reason number 5 that I gave you, you will begin to understand why it depends on chemistry. I’m going to say something that most will hate me for saying. Depending on the chemistry he is lazy and a bit incompetent. Yes. The ugly word “I”. Also listen to reason number 3.
When you understand chemistry, you see that it’s a lazy way to develop a relationship. Why? Because chemistry depends on the secretion of biochemicals. Every healthy person has them. We secrete neurochemicals that make us feel good around certain people. However, most do not know why these neurochemicals are secreted. We think it’s magical. There is no magic in relationships. And neurochemicals don’t make relationships work. People do. As soon as the dopamine phase wears off, you find that neither of you is ready for a relationship.
When you understand the above four reasons why you can’t find love and have mastered them, you’ll discover that neurochemical secrets are to your advantage. In fact, you could even learn to self-induce them at will. That will put you in charge of your relationship, rather than allowing bodily functions to be in charge of your relationship.
For the record, most confuse neurochemical secretions with love. Love is not a feeling. Therefore, it is difficult to build a great relationship that is based on feelings or neurochemical secrets. Feelings are fleeting.