Do you come across that dazzling pair of gold earrings that your sweetheart hid in your apple pie? Nice surprise. Find that one of them is missing? Not so much. Sometimes even the most expensive surprise anniversary gift idea can backfire. However, when it works out the way you planned it, your reaction is priceless.
But how do you do that? How to conjure up an anniversary gift idea that suits your partner perfectly without directly asking them “what do you want”? If your answer is “just give them the cash,” you better enjoy this anniversary. It could be the last.
Or you may be tempted to throw caution to the wind and go with your instincts, but so was the guy with the earrings. Instead, she closes her eyes, opens her ears, and surprise her, in a good way, with the perfect anniversary gift idea that makes her go “ahhh.”
Show your true colors
On the surface, this is one of the simplest approaches to finding a custom-made anniversary gift idea. Use her favorite color as a starting point. Of course, to do that, you first have to KNOW her favorite color. And for guys, that requires stepping out of their comfort zone and immersing themselves in a new experience: paying attention.
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Look at your clothes and accessories and notice which shades tend to repeat themselves. Is it true to blue? Then a sparkling sapphire bracelet may be ideal.
Or maybe she prefers to go green. She picks out a dazzling pair of emerald earrings and looks forward to the braces.
Does she often look pretty in pink? Gift her a stunning pearl necklace that begs the question “how did you know?”
Ladies, the same approach will work wonders for your man, and since you’ve mastered all that “paying attention” stuff, you’re halfway there in your search for an anniversary gift idea.
Maybe it’s a stylish watch with a dial or strap that matches your favorite shade, or a pair of stylish cufflinks in the color you like best.
Whichever route you choose, overcoming your color blindness can offer eye-opening results in your search for the best anniversary gift idea.
Play the numbers game
What’s in a number? How about the key to an unforgettable anniversary gift idea and, in the process, the heart of your loved one?
Women are often pleasantly surprised when you remember your anniversary; much less what number it is. So impress her twice by matching the gift to the material traditionally associated with that anniversary year.
Of course, this is easier for some years than others. Silver for 25 or pearl for 30 is pretty straightforward, but what about the first anniversary and its connection to the role? Give him a pad of paper to write on, and you’ll likely get a “Dear John” letter in return.
Fortunately, there’s also a list of modern gifts for each year to go along with the traditional ones, probably compiled by the guy who took the “paper” route.
For example, the first anniversary is also related to watches, and it is not too much of a stretch to extend it to watches. What better way to celebrate her first year together than with beautiful his and hers watches? They’re fashionable, functional, and somehow appropriate for the couple who are still learning what makes each other tick.
Although they won’t admit it, everyone loves surprises, so incorporating them into your next anniversary gift idea will make a lasting impression. Let your imagination fly and dare to be different.
But whatever you do, avoid the “jewels in the cake” approach. Some surprises are too hard for the stomach.