When it comes to signs that your ex is ready to make up, one of the first things to know is that sometimes she doesn’t even know it herself. There are many subconscious things that your ex will do with words, actions, and even body language that will signal that she is giving you the green light. Knowing what these things are and when they happen can be key to getting an ex girlfriend back. The following list contains some of the most promising indications that you are on your way to winning it back:
Your ex keeps in touch with you – Any girl who breaks up with you and really means she will eventually fade out of your life. Even if she let you down easily and gave you the “let’s be friends” speech…if she’s not interested, you’ll eventually lose touch with her. If you have an ex-girlfriend who keeps in constant contact with you, that’s always a good sign. This could be over the phone or face-to-face contact, or it could be through text messages or emails if she’s trying to hide this communication from her friends (or even a new boyfriend). Either way, her desire to talk to you is always a good sign.
Your ex girlfriend asks to meet you – Your ex’s texts and emails are all very well, but when he wants to meet you for lunch or coffee, there’s usually something going on. Even if she doesn’t have anything specific to say to you, she’s probably watching your own body language and seeing how you react to being around her. Any ex who keeps the lines of communication this open has left the door to their relationship ajar…just in case she decides to change her mind. Keep your conversation upbeat and fun, and make her always happy to see you. After a while, things will get more personal.
she starts asking about your own situation – This is a big sign that your ex doesn’t want you to move on. Yes, she broke up with you. Yes, she might even have wished you luck in finding someone new. But did she mean it? No way. No woman wants to see her ex-boyfriend dating another girl, especially if she hasn’t moved on herself yet. What she’s doing here is probing to see what kind of circumstances you have in your own personal life. As friendly as she may sound, she’s not asking it in a friendly way: she’s asking it in the way of an ex-girlfriend, one who’d rather see you single.
She suddenly changes her attitude towards you – After a breakup, your ex might treat you with kid gloves. He will probably keep some distance between you, even through contact, and he will be mindful not to try to trick you. But then all of a sudden… he’s emotionally close again. She starts complimenting you and showing you affection, and she can get really flirty all at once. This is a great sign that your ex wants you back. Something has changed in her own life, or in her outlook on you. She rolls with it, and see where it takes you.