Well, this situation is complicated, isn’t it?
It may seem impossible, but it is not. In fact, you can win a guy back even if he has rejected you. This is how you do it:
get some away
It is very important to allow time to pass after the rejection has occurred. The last thing you want to do is act like the kind of girl you’re going to need a restraining order against.
So take a break. You need to let your wounds heal a bit, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want you around…for now anyway.
Reopen the communication
After a decent amount of time has passed (a month is a good goal), you can carefully try to re-establish communication.
How you do this depends on how close the two of you were and how intertwined you were in each other’s lives (whether you worked together, had mutual friends, etc.). The important thing is that this first interaction is friendly and brief. .
Make him want to stay in touch with you
Now that you’ve resurfaced and he’s remembered you well, you’ll want to give him a good reason to stay in touch.
If he left something of his at your house, great. You can always use that as your reason. However, it’s even better to give him a more personal incentive: tell him about a cool event you know he’d enjoy, invite him to a mutual friend’s party, etc. You can even host your own get-together and make it so cool, they won’t be able to resist going.
Keep things fresh and casual
You have successfully worked to get back in touch with him and have re-entered his life. Now, it’s important to keep up the game face and not screw it up by being too emotional or reopening the past with him.
Stay calm and mentally let go of the previous rejection. Don’t let yourself think about it. Make it clear that you have no expectations of him other than to be his friend. This will make his mind think why and also drive him a little crazy; men always want what they can’t have. If you walk away from the table as an option (or at least lead him to believe that), then you are automatically more attractive.
make him jealous
Once you’ve been back in each other’s lives for a while (it’s bad to do this too soon because it seems staged and obvious), it’s time to make him jealous and remind him how desirable you are.
Get your friends to help you out by spreading the word that you’re in a hot new situation with a new guy. He wants the word to return to the real object of his affection. Another way is to simply mention your new “relationship” casually to mutual friends or acquaintances.
start flirting
If the jealousy game was successful, he will soon talk to you and might even act very friendly as he questions you for information about your new “relationship.”
Don’t ask her if she’s seeing someone, because you want her to think that you don’t even care. Instead, get her blood boiling a little with some very sexy flashbacks and flirtations.
roll it all back up
Now that you have him interested and intrigued by you again, cut him off.
Be strong and do this even if you don’t want to; It will benefit you in the long run and make his desire for you stronger if you don’t return his calls, texts, emails, etc. for a moment.
He wants to see you and talk to you, but he can’t. It’s the perfect setting and puts you in a prime position to get it back. Once he sees or speaks to you again, he’ll be putty in your hands.