How to get a girl’s phone number in 60 seconds and why you haven’t been successful in getting her phone number… until now!
Almost every day, pretty girls are approached by guys who want them for sex. Most of these guys aren’t very good-looking, which isn’t the most important thing in the world, as you’ll soon see. Almost none of the guys who approach the girls are graceful in their approach.
The first thing you need to understand in order to get a girl’s phone number is to understand her state of mind in terms of what she is going through.
How would you feel if every day you were approached by five to ten different women, most of them not that attractive and most of them with stupid things to say like “hey honey, I bet you’re big between your legs.” If she doesn’t get much action, her first thought is probably “I’d love to!” Trust me, you would get tired quickly and an attractive girl is very tired.
At this point, you may already be appreciating why women seem so defensive when you approach them and try to get their phone number.
Read on and you’ll see how to quickly break through these barriers and get on your side of the fence. In a matter of 60 seconds you can get their phone number and email address.
Step #1 to get the number of girls:
Approach the girl. Now that wasn’t obvious, was it?
My personal favorite place to meet a girl and get her phone number is the grocery store. The reason for this is that it is a place where he or she will feel comfortable because there are many people around her and she will feel safe. The second reason a grocery store is a great place to get a girl’s phone number is because you can find out a lot about her before you open her mouth. For example, what kind of food is in her shopping cart. is that a lot of junk food? If you are a fan of healthy food, perhaps approaching it is not the best idea. Is there a lot of healthy food? Again, if you’re into junk food, this may not be a match for you. Do you see diapers in her shopping cart? Very good luck having a son. If you hate kids again, maybe I’m not a good match. And last but not least, the girl pushing the shopping cart has both hands on the handle so you can easily see if there is a wedding ring in there or not.
A great opening when approaching the girl would be something like, “Gee, I’m a single guy who doesn’t know much about cooking.” It doesn’t have to be an overly witty or brilliant question that takes the pressure off to be brilliant or charming. If, for example, he is near the bread and grabs a loaf of whole wheat bread, you might say, “Do you really think that whole wheat bread is as much healthier than white bread as they say on the news?” Or if he’s holding a box of pasta, say “Do you know of any really good pasta recipes that don’t include tomato sauce?” Anything to start a conversation.
Step #2 to get a girls phone number
The next step to get the girl’s phone number is to imitate her.
When human beings try to make ties or friendships with other human beings there are two factors that they consider. The first is physical attractiveness. This is true even with just friendships. Of course, it is especially true when members of the opposite sex try to meet.
The second most important factor in making a decision or attempting to befriend another person is asking ourselves how similar this person is to us. Ultimately, most of us seek to form bonds with people who we feel are as much like us as possible. It makes us feel comfortable and validates who we are and reinforces the idea that we are going to have a good time with that person because “this person understands me.”
Now, the way most people try to form a sense of bonding or likeness with another person is by using the phrase “me too” or similar. For example, one person says “oh I really hate hot weather”, the other person replies “yeah, me too”.
This is trying to create a connection using words. Did you know that non-verbal communication or body language is 2 times more powerful than words to create a bonding sensation? The idea here is that when you’re talking to the woman you’re trying to get the phone number of, you want to make her feel like the two of you are very similar in the sense that you’re very much alike.
Don’t do it with words do it with body language. This psychological principle is known as reflex. The way it works is that you mimic it. Not like a monkey doing the exact same thing as her, then you’ll look like an idiot. Do it subtly. If he brushes his hair with his hand, you raise your hand and touch your head in some way. Again, not exactly the same way as her, but similar. If she talks fast, you talk fast. If she talks slow, you talk slow. If she stands a certain way, you stand a similar way. On an unconscious and very powerful level, she will feel that the two of you are very similar. Mirror or her effectively and getting her phone number from her will be like taking candy from a baby.
Step #3 to get a girls phone number
The next psychological principle is called anchoring and this is how it works. Put the girl in a positive and happy state of mind as fast as you can. Make her laugh and enjoy her conversation with you. This can be the hardest part of the whole process, especially if you’re nervous or apprehensive about getting a girl’s phone number. Again, this step isn’t absolutely necessary to get a girl’s phone number, but it definitely helps. If this seems difficult and you feel nervous about it, don’t worry. Believe it or not, my fear of women and approaching them was so strong that I was a complete virgin until three years ago. The reason you want a girl to be in a positive, upbeat state is to prepare you for the next step, which is…
Step #4 to get a girl’s phone number… stay away!
This is the most important step in the whole process of getting a girls phone number.
As soon as you have her in a positive and upbeat frame of mind, enjoying the conversation with you, immediately say “I have to get back to my friends. It was nice meeting you” and immediately walk away. The reason for this is that you want to surprise her and make yourself look totally different from any other guy that has ever approached her.
Think about it. You have her in an attractive and interesting conversation and in the middle of it you leave. What do most guys do to get their phone number? They asked for it. You, on the other hand, in the middle of a good conversation, have turned around and left. She will immediately scratch her head wondering what went wrong. She will be perplexed and confused and she will wonder “why didn’t you ask me for her phone number?” “why did she leave in the middle of the conversation”.
You have achieved what most men fail to achieve.
You made her think of you. Now, after you’ve walked away and gone about 10 or 12 steps from his stop, turn around and say “What’s your email address?” Don’t ask if you can have his email address. Just ask him what it is and hand him the pen and paper that was in your pocket. (we must come prepared). There are a variety of psychological principles behind it and for more information just watch the full version of how to get a girl’s phone number. It is totally free and there is no problem at all.
As she writes down her phone number, say “While you’re at it, write down her phone number.”
Will this method of getting a girl’s phone number work EVERY TIME?
No, nothing always works. However, using this method to get a girl’s phone number will work MUCH more often than any previous way of getting a girl’s phone number. To be a successful practice. Practice especially the reflection part.
After you have practiced this technique 10 or 15 times, you will be a master at it. And if you really want to meet a lot of women, don’t limit yourself to any one method. You should also meet girls online.